Julia Emmory Otey

Notes:

From her death notice in the Hale MO newspaper:
She was born December 15, 1871 on a farm near Carrollton Mo (sic) - the "farm" at the time of her birth was actually a plantation known as Herndon Hill.

She was educated in the Carrollton Public Schools, and graduated high school with the class of 1889.

September 24, 1891 she was united in marriage with Arlie Cleveland. They resided in Carrollton for two years, moving then to a farm near Hale (Mo) where they have since made their home.

She was a member of the Hale Baptist Church. A lady highly respected and esteemed by all who knew her. Funeral services in her memory were held from the Willis Brother's Funeral Home, Tuesday morning at 11 o'clock; conducted by Rev. E.C. Vanderpool/assisted by Rev. T.J. West of Carrollton. Interment was made in the Oakhill Cemetery (Hale?)

Note from her Grandson Harold W. Cleveland:

She died about 1929. I was too young to know much about her except that she was a kind and generous person to me. She was also quite strict and would brook no "sass". One of the first "big" words I learned was from her oft repeated statement to me: "young man! Don't you contradict me!" She would not allow my Granddad to smoke in the house, and was firmly set against his (or anyone's) drinking (even of a social nature.)

One of her favorite books was a copy of Tenneyson's complete works, as of this writing (1/2/94) it is in my possession. Inside the front and back covers are penciled repeated references to Alie Cleveland made in 1888, the most telling being: "AC is the cutest boy in the United States". Though outwardly strict and proper, she obviously had depths of emotions which were rarely revealed.

I loved her dearly!

Julia married Arlie E. Cleveland on 24 Sep 1891 in Carrollton, Carroll County, MO. Arlie (son of Seneca Cleveland and Mary Hughes) was born on 25 Oct 1870; died in 1953 in Fort Scott, Bourbon County, KS. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

1. Harold Herndon Cleveland was born on 18 Dec 1895 in Hale, MO; died on 16 Jun 1943 in Burlington, IA.
2. Vera Cleveland
3. Otey Fairbank Cleveland was born in 1893; died in 1896.

Other Events and Attributes:

• Census: 1860, Covington, Alleghany County, VA
• Military Service: Between 1860 and 1866, Alleghany County, Virginia, USA; Private, Co. A, 27th Virginia Infantry. Carpenters Co. St. L. Art.

Notes:

As told by Anna Otey to Harold Cleveland Ca. 1953

"During the Civil War, Captain Otey was assigned to Lee's command. When Lee went to Appomattox to surrender, Captain Otey did not go along. He mounted his horse and struck out for Missouri, stating bluntly that he refused to surrender. (To this day none of the Captain's side of the family has ever surrendered.) One night he found himself in the small town of Utica Mo. He went to the inn and arranged for a nights lodging. It was dark and he was tired so he went to bed without striking a light. When he awoke the next morning the first thing that met his eye was a picture of "Mr." Lincoln on the wall. Outraged, Captain Otey hauled out his side arm and blasted the picture off the wall. He then jumped through the window, and without paying his bill to 'those damn Yankees', continued on his way home. To this day, the family apparently still owes a bill to some innkeeper's family in Utica."

Side note: Captain Otey's very proper daughter Anna M. Otey took great pleasure in telling this story and could see no wrong in her father's actions. After all, the innkeepers WERE Yankees.

ADDENDUM: March of 1996

Consultation of the military records of the period indicate that the above tale, charming though it may be is open to question.

There were a some 80 Oteys who served in the Confederate army. Of that group there is listed but one Virginius B. He was a Private who served with Captain Carpenter's company of Light Artillery aka, The Alleghany Rough Artillery. The only Captain Otey was named James.* According to his pay records, Virginius was wounded July 21st, 1861, at the first battle of Manassas, and again in February, 1863 at Lynchburg having been admitted to General Hospital #1 at Richmond, February 11, of that year. He was released from General Hospital #9, Richmond, Virginia, on June 4th 1864.* (As there are no mustering out records, part of the traditional story may have been factual.)

The company muster roll states that he was 21 in 1861, and that he enlisted at Covington, Alleghany County, Virginia, with the Alleghany Light Infantry - which became, the 27th Regiment Virginia Infantry. This unit was transferred to the artillery service during the latter part of 1861. The 27th was also known as the 6th Virginia Infantry.* Regardless of its various designations, the Company was always attached to the "Stonewall Brigade".

Virginius' occupation was listed as "manager" - of what it does not say. Given the era and locale, one might speculate that he was a plantation manager (overseer?)

* See National Archives Microfilm Publications, Microcopy No. 324.
COMPILED SERVICE RECORDS OF CONFEDERATE SOLDIERS WHO SERVED INORGANIZATIONS FROM THE STATE OF VIRGINIA. Roll 270, Capt. Carpenter's Co., Light Artillery, M-Y

Virginius married Mary Emma Cooper in 1869. Mary (daughter of Archilaus Mitchell Perkins Herndon and Ann Marian Dickinson) was born on 20 Aug 1848 in Carrollton, Carroll, Missouri, USA; died on 20 May 1931 in Carrollton, Carroll, Missouri, USA; was buried in Oak Hill Cemetery, Carrollton, Carroll County, MO. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Other Events and Attributes:

• Census: 1860, Wakonda Twp., Carroll County, MO
• Residence: 1860, Wakenda, Carroll, Missouri, USA
• Residence: 1870, Wakenda, Carroll, Missouri, USA
• Residence: 1900, Carrollton city, Carroll, Missouri
• Residence: 1920, Carrollton, Carroll, Missouri
• Residence: 1930, Carrollton, Carroll, Missouri

Notes:

They were fourth cousins once removed.

John married Angeline Middleton Brown about 1817. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Other Events and Attributes:

• Census: 1850, Carroll County, MO
• Residence: 1850, District 15, Carroll, Missouri
• Census: 1860, Wakonda Twp., Carroll County, MO
• Residence: 1880, Carrol, Carroll, Missouri, USA
• Residence: 1900, Carrollton city, Carroll, Missouri

Archilaus married Ann Marian Dickinson on 18 Apr 1835. Ann was born on 12 Sep 1822 in Virginia, USA; died on 8 Apr 1857 in Carrollton, Carroll, Missouri, USA; was buried in Oak Hill Cemetery, Carrollton, Carroll County, MO. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

John married Elizabeth Buford on 1 Apr 1790. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Notes:

Sergeant in the war of 1812. In 1830 he moved with his family from Goochland County in Virginia to MO where he acquired 3000 acres near Carrollton. It was on this land which came to be called Herndon Hill, that he established his plantation. He was a slave holder who treated his slaves well. To do otherwise, (according to his granddaughter Anna Otey) he felt would have been a poor business practice tantamount to misusing expensive machinery or other equipment. He was buried at Carrollton, and his grave bears a marker indicating his service in 1812.

James married Ann Reed Mitchell Perkins on 19 Oct 1812 in Goochland County, Virginia, USA. Ann (daughter of Archelaus Mitchell Perkins and Ann D. "Patsy" Mitchell) was born on 7 Oct 1793 in Goochland County, Virginia, USA; died on 28 Feb 1871 in Carrollton, Carroll, Missouri, USA; was buried in Oak Hill Cemetery, Carrollton, Carroll County, MO. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

Other Events and Attributes:

• Residence: 1850, District 15, Carroll, Missouri
• Census: 1860, Wakonda Twp., Carroll County, MO